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Giving Thanks at Roy Rogers

by Merely Me
Monday, November 16, 2009

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Many years ago before I chose to stay home with my two boys who are now teenagers, I worked at a developmental day program for people who had multiple disabilities.  One of my favorite clients was a little guy named Joe.  Joe was no taller than myself (I am all of five foot two) with a s...

  • Roy Rogers
    Judy
    Monday, November 16, 2009 at 08:34 PM

    Merely Me, you about made me cry with this story!  Yes, I truly believe everyone has a purpose here and sometimes it's to teach others.  Your story reminds me of this staff person who used to work with my son on independent living skills, etc.  He's my age, never married and his life was his clients.  There were a bunch of guys that he would pick up every Saturday evening, they'd go to church and then out to eat at a decent restaurant and he'd talk with them like he was just one of the them.  He left several years ago, but still calls my son periodically and while he was living in Denver for a couple of years, my son went out there to visit him for a week.  He comes back here once in a while just to see his old clients.  People like him, and you, who can see the individual person in each client, can work miracles for them, just like they are often miracles to us.

     

    Thank you so much for telling this story - it was a real soul-warmer!


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    re: Roy Rogers
    Merely Me
    Thursday, November 19, 2009 at 08:18 PM

    Awww thanks Judy!

     

    Now you are making me feel all sentimental.  I should give a call to the program where I worked...and talk to the folks there before the holidays.  It has been so long.

     

    Thanks so much for reading and sharing Judy.


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  • Beautifully written
    Rubyslippers44
    Monday, November 16, 2009 at 10:00 PM

    What a wonderful story--beautifully written.  Sometimes we are the teacher; sometimes we are the student. We all can learn from each other.  I see in your profile that you are writing a book. Write faster. . . for the world is waiting for your insights . . .and the unique way you express yourself.

     

    I smiled when you mentioned Pittsburgh because I envisioned Oakland when you said a university basement. (I'm from Western PA, as well.)


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    re: Beautifully written
    Merely Me
    Thursday, November 19, 2009 at 08:21 PM

    Oooh thank you!

     

    wow...yes.  University of Pgh...Cathedral of Learning.  Do you know this place? 

     

    I really appreciate your comment and your encouragement...means a lot to me.


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    re: re: Beautifully written
    Rubyslippers44
    Thursday, November 19, 2009 at 11:16 PM

    I'm somewhat familiar with Pitt in Oakland, although I got my degree at a branch campus in Johnstown. I lived and worked south of Pittsburgh for about 20 years, so I've been to Oakland many times. There was just something in that description of RR and a univ. basement that said "Oakland" to me. . . there is something special about Southwestern Pennsylvania and its people. (I just wrote my first novel & it is about SW PA & its specialness, among other things.) Keep writing!


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  • A story to love
    Paul
    Wednesday, November 18, 2009 at 03:30 PM

    Joe seemed so in touch with his world, acceptance and thankful for the good which came his way. Living like all of us but perhaps, more aware. I wonder what his hopes were; what did he see coming, or was he just content for the here and now? Which way is best?

     

    I'm glad he got the chances to move about, be taught necessities. That he had a place to go, a safe place. I wish we could have done more, because he was, unknown to him, a teacher and too few people ever saw him that way. It takes a special person to look at someone and explain what is really going on, the truth about another person. That day, you saw something extraordinary and now, pass it on.

     

    We all have something to give, if someone would notice. It is the irritants we see readily, too little the good. Thanks for reminding me, to look.


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    re: A story to love
    Merely Me
    Thursday, November 19, 2009 at 08:28 PM

    I like to believe that Joe was just...happy.  Happy to be alive...happy for a meal at Roy Rogers....happy to see another day.  It was such a contentment that I could only observe.  Not sure if Joe is even alive today.  I sure hope he is. 

     

    He does remind me to be grateful and see the good in life and in people.  I am not perfect so I forget sometimes.

     

    Thanks so much for your comment...I am glad you liked my story.


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